Friday 28 January 2011

Secret Messaging?

Just a quick one....
One thing that doesn't seem to have any 'unwritten rules' that I feel is rather amusing is this:

What is the etiquette on how many kisses to put at the end of a message?
Does there need to be any etiquette? Is it completely insignificant? (NO!) Does everyone just stumble around (so-to-speak) and hope they don't look needy or uninterested? (Am I the only one who wonders this?)



P.S. I am in the middle of writing a longer post, I promise it'll be up soon! (Like anyone religiously reads this anyway *rolls eyes*)

Saturday 8 January 2011

Sex On The Third Date...

Unfortunately I have had little humour in the past while due to working extremely anti-social hours.
I do figure that I need to really update though.

So, to give you the scenario I present one of my friends.She committed the ultimate cardinal sin and slept with a co-worker at the work Christmas do.

Yes. Total cliche/typical.

(When she told me initially I almost fell over laughing.)
(It gets worse.)

She then tells me that she's been hiding behind towels and other such displays all day. Groan.


The next day she tells me they're going on a date.

Yep, her thoughts, just like mine are that; What the hell do you do on a date?!
We are English girls. There are no rules for us English.

We have the usual American ones; don't sleep with a guy on the first date, don't talk about ex's til the third date, don't eat something messy, don't talk too much about yourself, yadda yadda yadda.

But we don't really follow this.
Us English folk like to do things the opposite way. We like to be silly and stupid. If things are too formal and planned it becomes monotonous and dull.

Also how boring is it when you feel like you want to really have a connection with someone and it just becomes so forced?

It goes against every 'dating rule' but to sleep with a guy initally and then get to know them just seems like the best way round.
You find out you have chemistry, the chemistry leads to sex that leads to connection-like hormones being released and instantly all awkwardness is out the window. You don't have to worry about how to act because now you can be completely yourself.

This may sound completely wrong and devoid of any sense but if it doesn't feel right initially then it won't be right.

The point I'm trying to make is;

We shouldn't be acting or forcing anything and we should be trusting our instincts a lot more.
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